30 Apr I am fearless, no one can hurt me.
As we grown old, fear takes different shapes. For a kid is getting spanked by his parents or bullied by other kids. For a teenager is being ignored by his colleagues, or maybe having acne. For an adult mostly is fear of loosing a job, or something bad happening to their family.
We’re afraid of anything that can hurt us or cause us pain. These fear examples are caused by pains like physical suffering for us or a loved one, the pain of not being loved or cared for, the pain of not being appreciated.
Fortunately, most pain we feel day to day is not physical but psychological, it’s mostly an emotional impact that unconsciously we allow to affect us, and it’s keeping us prisoners of fear.
What’s the worse it can happen if you lose your job? Searching for a new one? A lower paying one? Losing your house to the bank? Getting deeper in your line of credit debt? People will talk about it and feel sorry for you? But I doubt you will not have a place to stay or food on your table or find work to pay for the most basic needs. I doubt it. At least for the vast majority of us.
What’s the worse it can happen if someone disappointed you, or someone is mean to you or ignores you? Nobody and nothing can hurt you emotionally unless you allow them too. And that’s the fear you have control over and the power to reject!
You are a unique person, with unique talents that the right people would appreciate, and love you for. Surround you with the people that have the same values with you, smile and reply with love to mean behaviour. You'll feel helpful, stronger, appreciated, loved.
Life is too short to be afraid, worried, stressed, to stay down. And even if real pain like losing someone or an awful diagnosis brings you down, lay there, morn, grief, cry, and then get up and build the next phase of your life. You have nothing to be afraid of now, because there is nothing you can’t handle. And everything that comes your way will make you stronger if you choose to learn from it and to love, live, grow and give.
Whoever you are, set yourself free, because there’s nothing you truly need to be happy that you can’t reach. And if you don’t know how, and you just don’t find the answer, give me a call and I’ll tell you what to do next. Because I care about you.